
Best Masturbation Practices for Men (You’re Welcome, Kings)
4 min reading time
4 min reading time
Gentlemen, it’s time to level up your solo game. This isn’t just about getting off, it’s about getting better at turning yourself on. In this bold, no-BS blog, we’re sharing techniques to help you stroke smarter, feel more, and explore new sensations you didn’t even know you were missing. Whether you’re a hands-on pro or toy-curious rookie, this one’s for you. 👑 Get ready to switch up your grip, slow it down, explore full-body pleasure, and say hello to game-changing toys designed just for you. Now go ahead, don’t be shy-read the full blog and unlock next-level pleasure!
Let’s talk about something men do but rarely talk about: masturbation. Spoiler alert: it’s not just a teenage hobby or a way to pass time when your partner’s not in the mood. It’s a legit self-care ritual. A stress reliever. A way to better understand your own body. And when done right, it can be downright transcendent.
So if you’re gonna do it (and let’s be real, you are), you might as well do it right. Here’s your friendly, no-judgment guide to turning your solo sessions into “Damn, that was amazing” moments.
Let’s start with the basics: your hand technique. If you’re using the same ol’ grip in the same ol’ way every single time, it’s time to get creative. Switch hands. Try a slower stroke. Use a twisting motion instead of just up-and-down. Play with the pressure. Some guys even experiment with different finger placements or incorporate both hands. There’s no one-size-fits-all technique, and your body might respond very differently depending on what you try.
Pro tip: variety keeps your pleasure sensors firing—and prevents you from becoming overly reliant on one specific method.
We get it—sometimes you’re just trying to get a quick release before your next Zoom call. But when you have the time? Slow that stroke, King. Teasing yourself by edging (bringing yourself close to orgasm, then backing off) builds tension and intensifies your climax like “whoa”. Instead of racing to the finish line, take your time and explore the build-up. It’s not just about the orgasm—it’s about the ride.
And if you want to add a little visual stimulation to the mix, go ahead and cue up some porn you actually enjoy. The right scene can heighten arousal, boost your fantasy game, and help you get deeper into your own pleasure zone. Just remember: porn can spice things up, but it’s not the main course—you are.
If you’re still going at it dry, we need to have a talk. Using a good lube not only reduces friction (hello, comfort) but also mimics the wet, slick sensations your body naturally responds to during partnered sex. Whether you prefer water-based for easy cleanup or silicone-based for long-lasting slip, you deserve that glide. Trust us—your penis will thank you.
Most men focus on one area, but your body is packed with pleasure points. Now before you say anything, we know you’re thinking…”I don’t know about exploring other parts of my body” but keep an open mind. Your nipples, inner thighs, perineum (the sweet spot between your balls and your backdoor), even your neck and ears—they’re all loaded with nerve endings just begging for attention. Try gently stroking or massaging these zones before or during your session. You might be surprised at how much extra heat it adds. It’s about creating full-body pleasure, not just a five-second fireworks show.
OK, before I get into this one, let’s just kill the stigma right now: sex toys aren’t just for women! Men’s toys have levelled up in recent years, and you’re missing out if you haven’t tried one. Vibrating strokers, sleeves, prostate massagers, and even suction toys designed for men can elevate your solo time from “meh” to mind-blowing. They’re discreet, designed for pleasure, and give your hand a well-deserved break.
Want a recommendation? Our men’s masturbators and vibrating sleeves are customer favourites—and for good reason. 😉
Here’s a sexy little secret: the brain is your biggest sex organ. Being present and tuned in during your solo time can drastically improve your experience. Deep breathing, fantasy, or even light meditation while touching yourself can intensify your orgasms. So ditch the distractions, silence your phone, and focus on the sensations. It’s not weird—it’s next-level pleasure.
At the end of the day, masturbation isn’t just about getting off, it’s about connecting with yourself. Understanding what feels good helps you become a better lover to your partner (or partners), and builds confidence in and out of the bedroom. Plus, let’s not forget the health benefits: stress relief, better sleep, improved mood, and even better sexual stamina.
So crank up the volume, grab your lube, and go treat yourself like the king you are. 👑
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